Dating Debate

its funny how hard it would be for guys to be single, how badly they need a help-mate, but woman can just take direction from dads and God, and stay single and be ok.
not that i'm gonna stay single, but if God wants me to, i'll be alright.

I'm not alone thank you.

haha wow.

haha. i dont think i could stay single my whole life either rj! HAHA

Yep...... Anyways hmm I had a question but I lost it oh well.

um, ok. ic.

Yeah but that is not me. Nor do I feel the lord wants me to go single for the rest of my life. Too many prayers with direct answers of this has led me to want to marry.

i think that it is better if one doesn't get married if one can stay single. so if u can i highly encourage it.

Hmm ok no persuasive arguement of my fake choice hmm I am disappointed.

Yes I want to marry someone as well, hopefully during or right after College.

yup

Nice lol.

lol alright. have fun.

i plan on getting married. just something i feel God has in store for me.
but i'm not worrying or messing around w/ it now. lol

I will try my hardest to.

k, c, u changed the whole subject completely.
well, good. i'm glad you dont' care.
its better to be single the married.
so if you can, go for it.

Placing words in my mouth, yes care for others but caring for one specific person more then any one creature on Earth are too different things.

uh, but in serving God, u serve others. so you do have to care about the ppl surrouding you. as i said, don't worry, and don't seek as of yet a wife, but do care.

I never included people in as I don't care about them, I'm only here on this Earth for my purpose to serve God and God will decide what happens to me during my life here. Sure it would be nice to be able to care for someone in extent to a wife, but if isn't in the plan God has for me oh well, Life will continue and so will my work.

um. you should care. you should care how u spend your time, what u do in ur life. You should care about other people, and how you can love and serve them. you should care where you go to college, if u do at all, if its what God wants. there are many things and ppl we should care about in our lives, because God cares.

You couldn't be more wrong, this life is just temporary so i could care less how long or what happens to me during my life span.

haha ur life does concern you.

Why exactly should I care for something that doesn't concern me.

you should care, but not be worried

Right.

What I meant was I don't care if I need to date or rather if I find someone at all I gave it to God to decide.

well i guess that depends on if you want to marry after high school, or wait until after college. or durring college, or whatever.

my parents said 16, but idk, i think like 16 or 17 sounds about right. it depends from person to person and how responsible and mature the two of you can be. but think of it this way, are you ready to start a relationship with the intention of it ending in marriage at the age of 16? some people are, but i'd say prolly around 17ish.